UNDERSTANDING

The differences between us is not in our looks but in our beliefs. Our looks maybe different but this is not what divides us but our beliefs. Our beliefs determine if I am for you or against you. These differences can exist even within families. Differences in ideology in governments and nations cause conflict. So examine each others beliefs and assumptions and you will find that all other differences are minor. All barriers will be broken down when you are able to understand what is making the other person behave the way they do. This understanding of the other's perspective is what will bring about change. When others are understood then conflict will diminish. When one tries to convince the other of one owns view without understanding the other then conflict will ensue. Both sides need to be willing to understand then to be understood. This is the platform for change. Lack of understanding results in premature judgements. When you go with an attitude to understand rather then to be understood then all barriers come down. If you fail to understand than you will fail to be understood. When I understand your world then you become my friend. All other differences are superficial.